How To Use Inclusive Language as a DJ

Love is love and I’m here for it. Have you looked at your website, contact us form and other materials to make sure the language is inclusive of the diverse range of clients you serve? I’m honored to be included in people’s special day and support everyone living their best life as their true authentic self. As a DJ and MC, it’s easy to use gender-inclusive verbiage during weddings and events. Here are some of my top tips and examples of language my couples have appreciated me using in the past.

 During the planning process:

• Each person and couple will be different, so never assume. Always ask what their preferred pronouns are, how they would like their relationship to be announced and what phrasing they like best.

When the couple is being introduced or for the first dance, say:

• Please join me in giving a warm welcome to the newlyweds!

• Put your hands together for Mrs. & Mx. (insert couple’s preferred last name)

• Who’s ready to celebrate their two favorite people?

• Let’s hear it for the happy couple!

• And now for their first dance as a married couple…

• Other popular gender-neutral terms: celebrant, spouse or marrier

During the reception:

• When special guests are making their entrance into the reception, introduce them as person of honor, best person, wedding party or attendants instead of maid of honor, bridal party, bridesmaids or groomsmen.

• When referring to the audience, use phrasing like family and friends, treasured guests or esteemed attendees in lieu of ladies and gentlemen.