Some DJs Don’t Like DJing Weddings

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A wedding is the most challenging type of event to DJ properly, because you need to know a LOT of music. Whether it’s in your own backyard or a faraway destination, it’s not uncommon for people to come from all over the world with different cultures and backgrounds to celebrate a wedding. Of course, some DJs will stick to the overplayed lists of “Most Requested Wedding Songs”–and this is why you may have been to several weddings and heard the same ones again and again.  

But all weddings aren’t the same. They have people of different ages, backgrounds, and ethnicities coming from all parts of the world. For some people, music isn’t that important, but if it IS for you, it’s important that you realize your wedding is unique from all others, and unless you choose a DJ that treats it that way, it will be generic and forgettable.

I LOVE DJING WEDDINGS

If I had to play all the same tracks every week, I’d probably go out of my mind.  Sure, there are songs that have stood the test of time, and they seem to be universally liked by literally everyone. The key to a great playlist is balance and knowing when it’s time to pivot.  This is the main reason I don’t plan my sets in advance; it’s impossible to predict when these moments will happen.

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  • ABOUT ME

    I started DJing weddings over 15 years ago while living in Philadelphia and working as a radio DJ and MTV VJ. As a result, my experience in live radio and TV has deeply influenced how I approach events. Anybody can hook up their Spotify playlist to a pair of speakers and hit “Play,” but is that going to cut it for an event this important? Your wedding??

    I believe the best events happen seamlessly, with one chapter of the evening effortlessly flowing into the next. The ways in which your guests enjoy your wedding evolves over the evening, and it takes a DJ with unique experience and intuition to be able to “read the room.” In other words, you want someone who will create a perfectly balanced soundtrack, all the way from quiet cocktails to a raging finale.  

  • ALWAYS MEET YOUR DJ

    When choosing your wedding DJ, it’s incredibly important to find someone you trust. It’s one of the reasons I require a face-to-face meeting (in-person or via video call) before I send a contract. You need to make sure you and your DJ are on the same page and you have complete faith in their ability to fulfill your expectations. 

    Choosing your DJ is the most important decision you will make when planning your wedding. No other vendor has complete control over how your guests are feeling throughout the night. You’re spending a lot of time and money to plan your wedding. Make your investment count with a DJ who will deliver the experience you expect and deserve.

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proper lighting will elevate the guest experience at your wedding by enhancing the mood throughout the light

An essential element to every event, proper lighting will elevate the guest experience at your wedding by enhancing the mood throughout the light.  All lights we provide are on dimmers and able to be adjusted immediately at any point in the evening.

With a heart full of gratitude, I’m honored to celebrate another remarkable year of working with amazing friends, talented industry experts and clients from all corners of the country to create one-of-a-kind experiences. Grateful feels like an
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